Alton Hayden

Oct 03, 2017

Alton F. “Sonny” “Shorty” Hayden, 88, passed away surrounded by his family Sept. 30, 2017, at the Sussman House in Rockport. Alton was born Nov. 17, 1928, in Randolph, Mass., to Alton F. and Georgianna Butler Hayden.

His adventures began at the age of 16 when he went to New Orleans with a friend who was discharged from the Army after World War II. He worked on a tug boat hauling oil from the gulf or goods up and down the Mississippi River. In a short time he became the captain. If not for being drafted during the Korean War, we suspect he would have stayed there because of his love for the job. He was a part of an elite Regimental Combat Team in the Army that trained for one year and spent one year in Korea. After his discharge from the Army he somehow made his way to Maine, cutting wood and eventually to Friendship where he worked local wharfs for several years. He was a jack-of-all-trades.

He loved to tell stories of his life adventures (there were many). If you knew him long enough you would hear them several times, but we never stopped him. It gave him pleasure to share and we loved hearing them.

He and his wife Barb were known to frequent several local restaurants for lunch, especially The Reunion Station in Damariscotta.

Shorty had a strong work ethic, generally working more than one job at a time in order to provide for his family. He made sure his family was provided for, even if that meant only a couple of hours sleep before starting his day all over again.

Shorty’s favorite sport was stock car racing. He could be seen in the early 1970s racing every weekend at Wiscasset Speedway. He also was a member of VFW Post 3095.

He was predeceased by his parents, Alton and Georgianna Hayden, granddaughters Robynn Hayden and Tara Lynn Rahkonen, as well as his mother-in-law and father-in-law Ruby and Ralph Turner.

Alton is survived by his wife of 32 years, Barbara; his children Larry Hayden and his wife Denise, Robert Hayden, Cindy Rahkonen and her husband Donald, and Tammy Brooks and her husband Quentin; the mother to his children Lorraine Mank Hayden; grandchildren Jesse Hayden, Janelle Appling, Preston Hayden, Hillary Bolton, Aimee Roderiques, Meaghan Hayden Thornton, Adam York, Heather Rahkonen, Rebekah Hilt, Keagan Hilt and Kyle Simmons; 22 great-grandchildren; two sisters, Roberta Hayden and Sharon O’Neil; sisters-in-law Linda Linscott and Alice Turner; brothers-in-law Ralph Turner Jr. and Richard Turner; and long-time friends Roger Mank and the Wyman family.

A special thank you to Dr. Andrew Filderman for the extra years you gave our loved one. Thank you to the Sussman House for their care.

Donations may be made in Alton’s name to the Word of Life Church, 41 Old Route 1, Waldoboro, ME 04572.

Friends are welcome to join the family for a time of visitation from 5 to 7 p.m. Wednesday, Oct. 4, at Hall Funeral Home, 949 Main St., Waldoboro. The service to celebrate Shorty’s life will be held Thursday, Oct. 5, at 10 a.m. at the Maine Veteran’s Cemetery, 163 Mt. Vernon Road, in Augusta, with Pastor Tom Rawley officiating.

You can share condolences at hallfuneralhomes.com. Arrangements are entrusted to Hall Funeral Home and Cremation Service, 949 Main St., Waldoboro.

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